Your girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, life partner, whoever it may be, just left you. Now what? Well, that all is affected by what YOU want to have happen next.
If you're fine with being separated and choose to have fun with the single life, do whatever you choose, I can't help you. On the other hand, if you would like your ex back, I'm happy to share that I can help you get your ex back, but it is absolutely vital that you adhere to some straight forward steps.
Step 1 - Acknowledge that the break was the correct choice. You may well be thinking to yourself "is this guy mad? I don't want them to think that. I want them to think that I want them back". That's one of the most common screw ups people make when they try to get their ex back.
By acknowledging to your ex that you agree with the breakup does two things: first, you and your ex are agreeing on something, which is probably something that you haven't done in a while, and it will probably feel really good for both of you, and second, it promptly takes away a sizable amount of the pressure that is being experienced by both of you.
Now that you've laid the groundwork, it's time to carry out step 2.
Step 2 - Technically, this is more something that you don't do than what you should do. DO NOT get in touch with your ex about anything! Sever all communication and provide her the space that she desires. This will provide her ample opportunity to miss you again. When she begins to miss you, she will begin to think increasingly more about you.
Basic human psychology says that we want something progressively more, the more and more we cannot have it. The more that you distance yourself from her, the more that she's going to want you back.
Think back to when you were dating in high school. Which was more exciting, the chase or the catch? The chase is always the fun part, because you're going after something that you don't have yet, which makes you desire it even more.
Step 3 - Plan the get together
Once you have done the 2 steps described above, you can begin working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and furthermore what should be said when you do meet up again. This will enable you to get a good idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any chance that you and your ex will be able to get back together.
"How do I get my ex back?" can be slightly more complicated than the three steps above. However, they are a great start and will improve your likelihood of winning your ex back.
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